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Low libido

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What is low libido?

Libido refers to sexual desire, or the drive to have sexual activity. It is also commonly called 'sex drive'. A low libido means that you have a low interest in sex and this can affect both men and women. Everybody's interest level in sex is different and there is no 'normal' level.

Causes

Libido can be affected by numerous factors. Some reasons for a reduced libido can include:

A low libido can affect both men and women. 

Methods for diagnosis

Low libido is defined as having limited sexual desire that, most importantly, is causing distress. A key to diagnosing low libido is determining how you and your partner feel about sexual desires. Some couples are not bothered by a lessened sex drive, while others are not happy if they believe they are not having a healthy sexual relationship. Diagnosis is therefore relative; if it is not causing any relationship problems, it may not be anything to worry about.

To help diagnose low libido, your doctor may give you a series of blood tests to rule out various physical causes of loss of libido including deficiency in certain hormones. The doctor may also explore relationship issues and depression.

Types of treatment

Low libido is treated by identifying and addressing the cause. It is important to note that libido levels can naturally vary while you are in relationships and as you age. Partner dissatisfaction is the most common reason for people seeking treatment for low libido.

General advice

Specific advice

For men:

For women:

Prognosis

Although low libido may be frustrating for you or your sexual partner, it is something that can normally be overcome. It is important to talk about the condition with each other and overcome it together. Everybody's libido is different and fluctuations in libido levels are common as relationship dynamics change, or as you age.

Prevention

To help prevent low libido, it is important to avoid any potential causes. This can include avoiding fatigue from working too much or not getting enough sleep. It can also help to deal with any psychological conditions including anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. Maintaining a healthy relationship with your partner by resolving any conflict and nurturing your relationship can also help prevent low libido.

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10 Most frequently asked questions (FAQs)

What is low libido?
Libido refers to sexual desire or the drive to have sexual activity. It is also commonly called 'sex drive' or 'sexual energy'. A low libido means that you have a low interest in sex. Everybody's interest level in sex is different and there is no normal level. A low libido can affect both men and women.
What are the symptoms of low libido?
The symptom of low libido is having limited sexual desire that is causing you distress.
What causes low libido?
Libido can be affected by numerous factors. Some reasons for a reduced libido can include: anxiety about previous performance; psychological issues including stress, depression or low self-esteem; familiarity with a sexual partner; physical turn-offs caused by changes in appearance; pain during sex; tiredness or fatigue; previous traumatic experiences (such as rape or sexual abuse); hormone changes during menopause or pregnancy; medication (such as antidepressant medication), alcohol or drugs; Illnesses (such as diabetes, thyroid disorders, heart disease or cancer), and; a deficiency in male hormones (such as testosterone).
Who gets low libido?
The feeling of low libido can affect both men and women who are sexually active. Low libido may be a result of factors such as anxiety about previous performance; psychological issues including stress, depression or low self-esteem; familiarity with a sexual partner; physical turn-offs caused by changes in appearance; pain during sex; tiredness or fatigue; previous traumatic experiences (such as rape or sexual abuse); hormone changes during menopause or pregnancy; medication (such as antidepressant medication), alcohol or drugs; Illnesses (such as diabetes, thyroid disorders, heart disease or cancer), and; a deficiency in male hormones (such as testosterone).
How is low libido diagnosed?
A key to diagnosing low libido is determining how you and your partner feel about sexual desires. Some couples are not bothered by a reduced sex drive, while others are not happy if they believe they are not having a healthy sexual relationship. Diagnosis is therefore relative; if it is not causing any problems to you or to your relationship, it may not be anything to worry about. To help diagnose low libido, your doctor may give you a series of blood tests to rule out various physical causes of loss of libido including deficiency in certain hormones. your doctor may also explore relationship issues and depression.
How is low libido treated?
Low libido is treated by identifying and addressing the cause. It is important to note that libido levels can naturally vary while you are in relationships and as you age. Partner dissatisfaction is the most common reason for people seeking treatment for low libido. As general advice: seek medical advice from a supportive doctor; manage any general health issues that might be causing you fatigue, such as iron deficiency anemia, abnormal thyroid function (hyper- or hypothyroidism) and sleep apnea; consider relationship counselling to address any relationship difficulties; where depression and/or anxiety is the cause of low sexual interest, treatment of these conditions may be beneficial; stress management strategies may help if low libido is related to stress, and; a medication review can identify certain medicines, such as antidepressants, that can affect sexual desire.
Can low libido be cured?
Although low libido may be frustrating for you or your partner, it is something that can normally be overcome. It is important to talk about it with each other and overcome it together. Everybody's libido is different and changes in libido levels are common as relationship dynamics change, or as you age.
What can be done at home to treat low libido?
Making some lifestyle changes can help to treat low libido. This can include exercising more, managing stress and communicating with your partner about sex. It can also help to make time for sex or be more creative in the bedroom.
Can low libido be prevented?
To help prevent low libido, it is important to avoid any potential causes. This can include avoiding fatigue from working too much or not getting enough sleep. It can also help to deal with any psychological conditions including anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. Maintaining a healthy relationship with your partner by resolving any conflict and nurturing your relationship can also help prevent low libido.
What can make low libido worse?
In some cases, avoiding dealing with the cause, such as a relationship problem, can place added strain on your relationship and make it worse. If possible, it is best to identify the problem and deal with it.

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Title: Low libido

Author: Dr Bow Tauro PhD, BSc (Hons)

First Published: 24 Nov 2014

Last reviewed: 17 Jan 2022

Category: Information on Low libido

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